买不起房的男人滚开，别毁了女人一生

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刚过去三个多月，我的同学中就有两对夫妻离婚了，而且四人都是我的大学同学。按说，离婚不关别人的事，可是他们都有了孩子，而且孩子还都判给了女方。两位女同学因无力抚养孩子，只好把孩子送给她们的父母抚养。
　　
当初在大学校园也都是花前月下卿卿我我海枯石烂的，为何刚结婚几年就离婚了呢？还是那个千古不变的真理：贫贱夫妻百事哀。这两个男生别说高薪有房了，就是那份收入微薄的工作也是朝不保夕的。

这种贫贱夫妻百事哀的现象并不是个例，好多夫妻结婚后由于双方都没稳定的工作，只好把孩子扔给自己的父母。我就不明白：经济基础如此之差的男人们，你们怎么好意思娶妻生子？

你们凭借爹妈给的脸蛋或者自己苦练的花言巧语，骗得一个女生和你们同居也应该满足了吧。你们为何还非要得寸进尺，用婚姻和孩子毁了这个女生的一生？我觉得那些穷男人学别人娶妻生子是极其无耻极其不负责任的行为，理由如下：

1.你们连个房子都买不起，让你们的女人在出租房里为你们怀胎生子，你们是不是太没担当了？就连雄性动物都知道在生育前为雌性弄个窝，你们真的连动物都不如。

2.确实，世界上的傻女人也很多，还是有为了所谓“爱情”而不介意你们无房的，但是你总得有份稳定的收入来养家糊口吧？我就见过老婆怀孕在家，而男方竟然也同时失业的。最终只好借钱度日，还要让自己的女人抛头露脸的去借钱。

3.都说不能让自己的孩子输在起跑线上，岂不知父母才是孩子的真正起跑线。别人的孩子都是站在父母的肩膀上起步，穷男人的孩子却都是从地下室起步的。不光从小无法得到优质的教育，长大后更是丝毫得不到父母的助力。注定一辈子在社会底层痛苦的挣扎，你们又于心何忍？

总之：对于穷男人们，你们最好是能独身就独身，实在憋不住就同居，娶妻生子是你们所能负担得起的吗？不光毁了一个女人的一生，也祸害了你们自己的孩子！

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